Recovery is a Process

RECOVERY takes everything you've got. And I mean everything. Time, energy, tears, old stories, ego, effort, money, and more. It is a commitment and is NOT for the faint of heart. Many choose to avoid it completely, even when freedom stands at the end waiting to greet them.

Is recovery worth it? It depends on how you define worth. For me it was/is absolutely worth it. Painful but purposeful and a path I've chosen to continue to walk. Why? Well for me, I cannot unknow what I now know. And I've tasted freedom. The only way out of the pain, lies, and deceit I faced was through it. All of it. Recovery, healing, post traumatic growth IS part of my life. It didn't happen over night or in three sessions. It didn't happen by only quoting scripture or thinking positive thoughts or wishing it all away.

As a betrayed partner, it has taken years, tears, and releasing. Now, here I stand, supporting others, and it truly is an honor. Each heart, each story is something I hold with great care, grace and compassion because I know it is not easy, and it takes great courage to say yes to this journey. As I've stated before, I personally would not be where I am, if it weren't for my own teachers, mentors, and closest and trusted few friends. They have been my life line. And God has been my ONLY constant.

If you are walking a path that seems too grueling or awakening to a truth about your spouse...a truth you never would have imagined, in a million years, please reach out.